It's my life

The probe into someone else's life feels like a carnal action, instinctively wanting to know more and find some what others have never known but the very individual.

In good name of being a friend, and thus wanting to know more; is most of the time not wanting to be the last to know on what is going on in someone else's (i.e. MY) life, and then feel left out.

I am not about to blast anyone here, but I would like to ask the motives or intentions of why u want to know? Lets make things really clear from the start. There is a very fine line between being a busybody (i.e. KAYPOH, in the words of the uncouth) and wanting to be accountable for me.

Letting anyone into my life is something that is very personal, and at times, can get emotionally intimate, where I share things that matters and bothers me. I am not stupid, if you haven't realised. Telling me u want to defend and protect me being ur reason of wanting to know what goes on in my life, is merely masquerading ur nosey antics with sweet-laced words.

Its like sugar coating the poison u are feeding me with.

I can tell if u truly care or u're truly curious and not wanting to be left out of the know. It is simply through whether u get upset if I don't say anything, or u respect my privacy and not probe further.

I don't know if I am at a point of frustration or I'm at a point of despair. But what I really know is this..


By letting u into my life is ur privillege, not ur right. But by letting u into my life, is surely my privillege.


Please respect my space, the way I respect ur's.